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Trump On Advice Columnist Accusing Him Of Rape: ‘She’s Not My Type’

President Donald Trump on Monday reiterated his denial of the rape allegations described by E. Jean Carroll, this time by saying the journalist and advice columnist was “not his type.”

“I’ll say it with great respect: No. 1, she’s not my type. No. 2, it never happened. It never happened, OK?” the president said in an interview with The Hill.

In an excerpt from her upcoming book, “What Do We Need Men For? A Modest Proposal,” published Friday by New York Magazine, Carroll detailed an alleged attack by Trump in the 1990s in a Bergdorf Goodman dressing room.

The columnist said she encountered Trump at the Manhattan store and that he asked for her help buying lingerie for an unnamed woman. Once inside the dressing room, Carroll alleged, Trump pinned her against a wall and forced “his fingers around my private area, thrusts his penis halfway — or completely, I’m not certain — inside me.”

The president denied the allegation in a statement on Friday, claiming he had “never met this person” in his life. He also accused Carroll of inventing the story to help her sell her book.

In a photo captured at an NBC party in 1987, Trump appears to stand in front of Carroll and beside his then-wife, Ivana Trump.

Carroll is the 16th woman who has publicly accused Trump of sexual misconduct. The president’s remark that Carroll isn’t his “type” echoes similar comments he’s made about other women who have accused him.

In 2016, Trump suggested he wouldn’t have assaulted accuser Jessica Leeds because he didn’t find her attractive enough.

“Believe me, she would not be my first choice,” he said at a rally in Greensboro, North Carolina. “That I can tell you. You don’t know. That would not be my first choice.”

This article has been updated with details on Trump’s history of denying allegations of sexual misconduct.


‘Friends’ Stars Post Hilariously Different Versions Of ‘Girls Night’ Out Together

A selfie is worth a thousand words — especially when you can learn something about the person who posted it.

That’s what Courteney Cox and Lisa Kudrow proved when they shared vastly different selfies of themselves with Jennifer Aniston while the three former “Friends” co-stars had a “girls night” together over the weekend.

Kudrow decided to be more of a traditionalist and posted a nice, flattering photo of the three of them.

She also had a clever caption to boot:

“Halfway there …” she wrote, most likely referencing the absence of their three male co-stars — David Schwimmer, Matt LeBlanc and Matthew Perry.

Cox, on the other hand, took a more kooky approach and posted this selfie.

She also posted an equally quirky caption: “Trying to figure out what to say on Instagram...” Cox wrote.

And we have no idea if Aniston, who cherishes her privacy, posted anything because she does not have a public Instagram account.

But it’s fun to see how two people having the same experience could post vastly different photos. Not to mention that Kudrow, who played the zany Phoebe on “Friends,” seemed to take more of Monica approach to posting a selfie, while Cox, who played Monica, acted a bit more like Phoebe.

It’s also pretty clear that the three co-stars are sincerely friends. Cox shared another sweet selfie with Kudrow and Aniston earlier this month in honor of her 55th birthday.

Keep doing you, ladies.

New York Times Admits Being 'Overly Cautious' On Rape Accusation Against Trump

New York Times Executive Editor Dean Baquet has admitted that the newspaper was “overly cautious” in how it handled a new rape accusation last week against US President Donald Trump by writer E. Jean Carroll.

The Times “should have played it bigger,” he conceded in an interview in the newspaper Monday as he responded to complaints about the tepid coverage.

Carroll, a well-known advice columnist, detailed the alleged assault in the mid-1990s in New York Magazine last week. Carroll said that she and Trump struck up a conversation in Manhattan’s Bergdorf Goodman department store before he pinned her against a wall in a dressing room and raped her. With Carroll’s allegation, 23 women have now accused Trump of sexual misconduct.

Trump has denied the allegation and claims he has never met Carroll — though she provided a photo that included the two of them for the magazine piece.

Carroll’s accusation was reported in the Times’ Book section because her account was an excerpt in the writer’s upcoming book.

Times readers wondered why “we didn’t give the allegations more attention,” Reader Center staff editor Lara Takenaga noted in the newspaper Monday. “Some questioned whether the lack of prominence showed too much deference to the president’s denials.”

Baquet conceded to Takenaga that the critics were “right that The Times had underplayed the article — though he said it had not been because of deference to the president,“ she wrote.

Baquet explained that the Times typically reports on sexual assault accusations only if it can locate witnesses who are willing to go on the record. The paper did speak to Carroll and to two friends who were told by Carroll of the alleged assault at the time, but they did not want their names revealed.

But Carroll’s case should have merited more attention because her accusation was widely covered in the press last week — and it involved the president. “In retrospect ... the fact that a well-known person was making a very public allegation against a sitting president ‘should’ve compelled us to play it bigger,’” Baquet conceded in Takenaga’s article.

The Times is “continuing to report” on Carroll’s accusations, Takenaga noted.

Carroll’s startling account also attracted almost no attention on the Sunday morning talk shows on NBC, ABC, CBS, CNN and Fox News. The writer did, however, recount the accusation with more detail in an interview Monday on CNN.

Lawyer George Conway, husband of White House senior adviser Kellyanne Conway, warned last week in a scathing op-ed piece in The Washington Post that Republicans should take Carroll’s accusation “seriously.” He said it was far more credible than an accusation of rape against Bill Clinton by Juanita Broaddrick that the GOP made much of.

Conway said Carroll’s allegation is particularly credible because 22 other women have accused Trump of sexual misconduct. Conway also cited Trump’s “depraved” remarks on an “Access Hollywood” tape that he could “grab” women by their genitals whenever he wanted. “When you’re a star ... you can do anything,” he boasted.

Taylor Swift Comes Under Fire For Pride Single, And Not From Who You'd Expect

Taylor Swift’s relentlessly sunny video for her new single “You Need to Calm Down” is getting shade from members and supporters of the same LGBTQ community the song champions.

The superstar’s pitch for GLAAD in the video release for the second song in her new album “Lover” triggered a spike in donations to the advocacy group. And Swift backed her stepped up activism with a surprise performance at the Stonewall Inn to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the New York uprising that launched the fight for Pride equality.

But Swift is now getting ripped by some who accuse her of profiting from pain and violence she knows nothing about, and turning the fight for equality into music sales.

Her video begins with Swift in a pink trailer complaining — with relatively good humor — about her online haters. But then it morphs into concern for her “friends.” Why are “you mad when you could be GLAAD?” she sings in an inflatable pool in a technicolor trailer park popping with rainbow flags and paint jobs.

The easy slide from her struggles with fame to what the LGBTQ community faces angered some. 

“It’s a breathtaking argument: that famous people are persecuted in a way meaningfully comparable to queer people,” Spencer Kornhaber wrote in The Atlantic. He calls the song Swift’s “grand LGBTQ-rights statement” that falls short.

Online digs are very different from “a parent who disowns a trans kid, or a lawmaker who tries to nullify same-sex marriages,” Kornhaber noted. 

Critics also expressed annoyance that Swift’s video depicts homophobes as dumb country bumpkins. They said the stereotype alienates a class of people — and fails to recognize the vicious, targeted attacks of, say, politicians. Besides, many LGBTG people are from “the very communities Swift is mocking,” wrote Nathan Ma of the Independent. 

Others have been more measured in their criticism and Swift’s “allyship.”

“Feels to me like a version of straight cis white girl pop star advocacy — not the most effective thing, but not as calculated and hollow as the other branded opportunist pride campaigns of late,” trans filmmaker Rhys Ernst told IndieWire

“Do I love it? No, but it’s not really for me. Doing a takedown of it doesn’t seem like it would be productive in this moment in history.”

A Grim Three Days For Women In UK Politics - From Boris Johnson To Mark Field

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Over the past three days, the news in UK has been dominated by male Tory MPs and their interactions with women. 

From Mark Field’s manhandling of a Greenpeace protester at a black-tie dinner on Thursday, to police being called to Boris Johnson’s home with his girlfriend Carrie Symonds over a domestic row, it has been a tense few days. 

Mandu Reid, leader of the Women’s Equality Party, told HuffPost UK on Monday that the fact some Tory MPs had leapt to defend both Field and Johnson “shows an unforgivable disregard for gendered violence, amounting to apologism”. 

“We don’t know what occurred between Boris Johnson and Carrie Symonds on Thursday night but by downplaying that incident Tory MPs are reinforcing the dangerous idea that we don’t have a collective responsibility to challenge male aggression when it occurs,” she said, adding that we live in a society that “normalises male violence”. 

But what exactly happened this weekend – and how did some Tory MPs react? 

Thursday 

Late on Thursday night, footage emerged of Tory MP Mark Field grabbing a female Greenpeace protester who had interrupted a speech by Chancellor Philip Hammond at a black-tie City dinner. 

The video – filmed at the annual Mansion House speech – showed Field shoving the climate change activist against a pillar before holding her by the neck and pushing her out of the room. 

A call of “Jeez... what?” could be heard on the video as the woman – later identified as 38-year-old Janet Barker – was removed from the banquet hall. 

Friday 

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Cities of London and Westminster MP Mark Field 

As you might expect, the news on Friday morning was dominated by discussion of the incident, with Labour calling for Field to resign. 

While the party’s equalities minister Dawn Butler described the moment as “horrific”, calling for the Tory MP to be sacked “due to violence against women”, Mayor of London Sadiq Khan tweeted: “Violence against women is endemic in our society and this behaviour is unacceptable. He should consider his position.”  

But a number of Conservative MPs jumped to Field’s defence, echoing his argument that he was “genuinely worried she might have been armed”.

Further footage from the event also suggested the Greenpeace campaigners had been in the room for a while before Field – who has been the MP for the Cities of London and Westminster since 2001 – reacted to Barker’s presence near his table. 

Former Army officer Johnny Mercer tweeted: “Honestly? Try being in our shoes in the current environment.

“He panicked, he’s not trained in restraint and arrest, and if you think this is ‘serious violence’, you may need to recalibrate your sensitivities. Calm down, move on, and be thankful this wasn’t worse.”

Meanwhile, Conservative Bob Stewart suggested Field had no choice but to push the protester by the neck because “she wasn’t wearing a collar”.

“How the heck, as a man, how do you hold a woman that is not in an inappropriate way?” he said.

“You can’t hold her by the wrist, you can’t hold her by the waist, you can’t hold her by lower down, you can’t hold her by the chest,” Stewart continued. “The only way you can really control someone in those circumstances is possibly by the collar. But she wasn’t wearing a collar.

“So that’s why his hand was probably round her neck. If he’d have touched her anywhere else he’d have probably been deemed highly inappropriate and he was trying to stop something.”

However, Field was later suspended from his role as a Foreign Office minister pending investigation, with Theresa May calling footage of the incident “very concerning”. 

Field also apologised to Barker and referred himself to the Cabinet Office and Tory Party. 

Friday... continued 

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Boris Johnson at a leadership hustings in Birmingham on Saturday 

Having suspended one minister (and another MP having been removed by recall petition on Friday), Conservative Party bosses were probably hoping for a quiet weekend.

But any such ambitions were dashed on Friday evening after the Guardian revealed that police were called to the home of Boris Johnson and his partner Carrie Symonds in the early hours of that morning after neighbours “heard a loud altercation involving screaming, shouting and banging”.

According to the newspaper, a neighbour heard Symonds tell Johnson to “get off me” and “get out of my flat”.

In a statement, the Met Police told the Guardian that officers attended the address, where everyone was “safe and well”.

There were no offenses or concerns apparent to the officers and there was no cause for police action,” they said.

Saturday 

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Johnson is in the race to replace Theresa May in Number 10 

It was on Saturday that the row over the incident at Johnson and Symonds’ home really escalated, with a number of Tory MPs coming out in defence of the Tory leadership frontrunner. 

In a now-deleted tweet, security minister Ben Wallace said: “What a non story ‘couple have row.’ Lefty neighbours give recording to Guardian. Newspaper reaches new low is a better news story”. 

Meanwhile, Brexit minister James Cleverly – who has backed Johnson in the leadership race – suggested that the decision by neighbours to call the police was politically-motivated. 

“The big element in the Boris story isn’t that there was a heated argument, it’s that the police were called,” he wrote on Twitter. 

“The police were called by the same person who recorded Boris and gave the story to the Guardian.”  

Since then, Priti Patel has likened the decision by Johnson’s neighbour to tape the argument to “the type of behaviour associated with the old Eastern bloc”, while Jacob Rees-Mogg called it “absolutely dreadful”. 

“I think the idea that snooping neighbours are recording what is going on for political advantage and then Class War protesters are coming to politicians’ front doors – which happened to me as well – is not a good place for politics to be,” he told LBC on Monday. 

But SafeLives, a domestic abuse charity, encouraged people to call the police if they thought someone’s safety was at risk. 

“The weekend has been full of comment about the relationship we have with our neighbours,” the group said in a statement. 

“It’s not for us to judge what happens in anyone’s relationship, but it is for us all to take action if we are concerned about someone’s safety. That’s a natural human instinct. Let’s support it rather than challenge it.

“Don’t walk on by if you are worried. Ask if they are ok. Tell someone. Call the police.”

During a leadership hustings in Birmingham on Saturday, Johnson refused to answer questions about the incident. 

Repeatedly ducking queries about the row, the contender for PM said: “People are entitled to ask me what I want to do for the country”, later adding that he had made it “pretty obvious from the foregoing” he would not be commenting. 

Labour MP Jess Philips – who worked for a domestic abuse charity for a number of years before joining parliament – criticised Johnson for passing on the opportunity “to give an explanation and to say to the nation that it was the right thing for the neighbours to call the police and the right thing for them to try to gather evidence”. 

“This is what everyone should do,” she told LBC. “But instead his very poor character has picked himself over the safety of women in this country, and the line that he is putting out is this is a private family matter.” 

India, US Closing In On Industrial Security Pact For Defence Tech Transfers

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NEW DELHI — India and the United States are closing in on an industrial security agreement that will allow the transfer of defence technology, sources said on Monday, ahead of US Secretary of State Mike Pompeo’s talks in New Delhi this week to promote strategic ties.

Disputes over trade and protectionist moves have escalated between the two countries in recent months, but defence ties remain strong with Washington seeking to build Indian capabilities as a counterweight to China.

India has bought weapons worth more than $15 billion from the United States over the past decade as it seeks to replace its Russian-origin military and is in talks for helicopters, armed drones and a bigger Indian plan for local production of combat planes together worth billions of dollars.

 

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To allow for transfer of technology for building combat jets locally and other joint ventures, the United States had sought guarantees for the protection of classified information and technology.

A draft of the agreement called Industrial Security Annex is now ready and will go up before the Union cabinet for approval in the next few weeks, sources aware of the India-US defence negotiations said.

It would be the first time New Delhi has entered into such a pact with any country, although the United States has such agreements in place with several countries, one of the sources said.

Lockheed Martin and Boeing are both in the race for a deal estimated at over $15 billion to supply the Indian Air Force with 114 fighter planes to replace its ageing fleet of Mig 21 jets.

The planes have to be built in the country as part of Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s Make-in-India drive to cut expensive imports and build a domestic industry.

Slack Is Bad, Actually

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When you can send GIFs to your co-workers in team channels and direct messages, Slack can feel like a private chatroom — but it ultimately belongs to your boss.

“I Slacked you” may still be a confusing phrase to some — but not for long, if Slack has anything to say about it. The fast-growing company began trading on the New York Stock Exchange last week with the ambition that its corporate chat platform will enter even more offices and lexicons. 

The jury is out on whether Slack, reportedly use by 10 million-plus people, is a good thing for productivity and communication. With its instant messaging convenience, Slack is designed to keep your attention within its confines, which sometimes comes at the expense of actually getting any work done. You can share a Google Doc in it, sync your calendars and connect emails through it. But when Slack becomes the primary form of workplace communication, Slack output can become the metric of hustle and diligence. 

“Its greatest strength: amazing ease-of-use, is also its weakness: making it far too easy for everyone to default to using Slack for communicating,” wrote software programmer Andrea Liu in a critique of Slack on Medium. She added: “Big or small, everything coming in through Slack shares the same compact shape, and worse, the same level of urgency.“

What’s become clear from my years of using Slack at work is that it is, first and foremost, a tool of corporate surveillance.

When I hear the Slack ping that announces a new message, I feel a Pavlovian pull to read it, right then, right away. There’s a red circle noting the number of new messages that nudges me to drop whatever I’m doing and click. That’s surely by design. Tristan Harris, a former Google employee turned industry critic, notes that red is a known trigger color. 

These psychological pulls are not great for my productivity and peace of mind, but for me, that’s not the worst thing about Slack. What’s become clear from my years of using Slack at work is that it is, first and foremost, a tool of corporate surveillance. Slack stands for “Searchable Log of All Communication and Knowledge,” after all. Its positive use depends on how much you trust your employer not to read your messages, because yes, they have complete access. 

And in offices where the assumption of positive intent has eroded and colleagues whisper furtively in the halls, that trust probably doesn’t extend very far. That is bad for morale and bad for the fundamental need for basic mutual respect and trust between employees and employers for any collaborative good to get done.

When you can send GIFs to your co-workers in a direct message, it can feel like a private chatroom for you to gossip and let off steam, but Slack ultimately belongs to your boss. The app is an extension of your boss’ technology. If you were using your boss’ laptop all day, would you trust them not to look at what you’re saying about them? It’s their computer, after all.  

Here’s how to tell who can read your private DMs.

To find out who can read your direct messages, go to yourteamname.slack.com/account/team. From there, you can toggle to “Retention & Exports” to see your company’s data retention plan. If you switch to “Admins & Owners,” you can see the list of employees with designated access.

Both admins and owners can easily download public messages, deletion logs, archived public channels and links to files included in any public channel through what’s called a standard export. Only workplace owners, however, can apply to see private channels and direct messages “as needed and permitted by law” through a corporate export. They first have to apply to use this export tool, but once approved by Slack, they can schedule exports to see all private messages.

According to Slack, applications can be made related to workplace harassment investigations, compliance with archival requirements, lawsuits requiring disclosure and more.

It’s too easy to watch each other on Slack. 

The publicly available knowledge Slack offers can also turn us all into snoops since employees can easily surveil each other. I was once in a turbulent office where colleagues disappeared from one day to the next; they were fired or laid off without formal notice. In the vacuum of official information, Slack became the definitive source on who had left or been fired.

There, like the funeral cannon in “The Hunger Games” that announced the identities of the fallen each night, we could tell who was fired by seeing if their Slack account was deactivated. The app provided a grim yet satisfying answer to our continuous questions of whether so-and-so was on vacation or actually gone for good.

At the time, seeing my colleagues’ deactivated status felt like an act of sousveillance, a way to turn the camera back and seize some sense of control in a situation of mass firings. But looking back, the ease with which I was able to look up my co-workers’ private job information through a public Slack detail contributed to my unease at the office. Turning the lens back on my co-workers reminded me of how quickly it could one day be my turn. I always felt like someone was watching and filing a report on me, probably because they easily could. 

On Slack, you can also see who Slacks the most on your team by seeing who is the most active user. Click the arrow by your Slack organization’s name, then head to “Analytics.” From there, you can click “Members” and sort the messages posted to see who among you is Slacking the most. 

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You don't have to keep those Slack messages forever.

One way to personally limit the public data other Slack users can see is to schedule your DMs to be deleted. To do this, click the gear icon in a direct message conversation, then click “Edit message retention.” From there, you can set Slack to delete messages and revisions after a set number of days. 

But that’s just one small answer to the larger question of how much you should share of yourself on Slack. I use Slack regularly because my colleagues use it to communicate and I do not want to deviate outside the norm. And I laugh at the GIFs. I love following entertaining threads that do not directly include me. Like many workers who sometimes work from home or in remote locations, I am a social animal who needs some immediate way to connect with co-workers so I feel less alone at work.

But I won’t be sad when a new technology that privileges an employee’s privacy over their boss’ ability to surveil them comes along and I can leave Slack for good.

In the meantime, my advice remains that when you need to discuss sensitive information with a colleague, don’t Slack it — say, “Let’s take this offline.”

Khloe Kardashian Says Jordyn Woods Forgot To Say 2 Words After Cheating Scandal

Though the Jordyn Woods and Tristan Thompson cheating allegations played out months ago on social media and in the news, the storyline just came to a head on Sunday’s episode of “Keeping Up With the Kardashians.” 

Khloe Kardashian tried to make sense of the scandal ― and who to believe ― after Woods continued to change her story and Thompson, the father of Kardashian’s child, True, simply confessed and said he did hook up with Woods.

While Woods first said that she was a “watchdog” at the party with the NBA player, she later admitted that she “made out” with Thompson and was “so confused.” 

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Kardashian appearing in a confessional on Sunday's episode. 

“Now she’s like, ‘It wasn’t a big deal. It wasn’t intimate. It wasn’t sexual,’” Kardashian said on the E! episode. 

“Now she’s downplaying it,” Kardashian added, before explaining what the real problem was with the situation.

“I’m not saying things can’t happen. I’m the most understanding, calm person ever. But Jordyn … never once has Jordyn said, ‘I’m sorry,’” she said. 

Earlier this week, viewers finally learned what Kylie Jenner said to her then-best friend as the scandal unfolded. 

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Jenner and Woods in better times. 

“I called [Woods] and she didn’t really say anything. She was just like, you know, crying the whole time,” Jenner explained. “And I was just telling her, ‘I’m like scared of you now. Like, you’re capable of waking up the next morning with a smile on your face.’” 

But the biggest problem Jenner said she had with Woods was that she didn’t believe Woods was thinking about the Kardashian-Jenner family.

“I pretty much told her exactly what we’ve been talking about. Like, ‘You weren’t thinking about True, not Khloé, not me,’” the beauty mogul said. 

She added that Woods “Could do whatever, but when it affects my family, me, then that’s when it’s a problem.” 


Beyoncé Fans Rejoice: 'Lion King' Director Promises A Lot More Nala

Beyoncé fans will be feeling the love at this news: Nala, her character in “The Lion King,” will have a larger role in the live-action film than she did in the 1994 animated version.

“In the original film, [Nala’s] role is not as large as in the stage production, and we definitely drew inspiration, and that was one of the areas where we were going to expand this,” “Lion King” director Jon Favreau told Fandango.com

“There’s an opportunity to build upon especially the female characters of Sarabi played by Alfre Woodard and Nala played by Beyoncé that the stage play explores further,” Favreau said. “It has a lot more time to do so than the original film. That was an area that we could build upon the original.”

The new film also takes advantage of Beyoncé’s pipes by having her sing a new song written especially for the film that she wrote with [music producer] Lebo M. and composer Hans Zimmer.

“They were all collaborating with her and helping to bring this new piece of music into a film where there’s already a very established musical personality to the piece,” Favreau said. “So it was nice of them to have them working with her to allow the new song to feel organically a part of the new production.”

Although Favreau said Beyoncé was “incredibly engaged and committed” in the production, he admits the main benefit of working with her came when he was home with his family.

“I was pretty stoked because I knew my stock was going to rise in my home,” he laughed.

“The Lion King” debuts in theaters July 19.

Yep, You Probably Have A Dating 'Type,' New Study Suggests

When dating, many people notice they tend to be attracted to the same “type.” There are physical types, sure ― tall, dark and bearded, for instance ― but also personality types. Maybe you’re drawn to the quiet, mysterious type. Or the vivacious, extroverted type that somehow manages to get you out on a Friday night.

For Lindsey Oliver, a design specialist from Durham, North Carolina, it’s a rare occasion when she strays from her type. She’s almost exclusively drawn to passionate and oftentimes emotionally volatile women.

“I’ve had multiple instances where my friends have warned me that someone I have a crush on may not be particularly emotionally stable,” she told HuffPost. “In retrospect, I feel like I’ve ignored every red flag because I’m hopelessly optimistic about them.”

That tendency to fall for the same kind of person time and time again (even if they’re not the healthiest match) isn’t just common; it’s now recognized by scientists. A new study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences suggests that most of us really do have a “type” when it comes to the personalities of our romantic partners. The researchers examined interviews with the current and former partners of hundreds of people to reach this conclusion.

Why talk to people’s exes instead of asking them directly? Previous research on the topic actually did rely on self-reported data about past relationships, but that’s a slightly problematic approach, said Yoobin Park, a lead researcher of the new study and a Ph.D. student in the department of psychology at the University of Toronto. 

If a person has any lingering negative feelings toward an ex, they’re probably not going to give a fair assessment of that person’s personality. 

“If you ask people to self-report, they may exaggerate the negative aspects of their ex-partners (e.g., ‘they were really clumsy’), and we may end up finding similarity between the exes just because of the participant’s tendency to describe them negatively,” she explained.

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More often than not, we date people who are similar to our exes, a new study has found.

To skirt the issue, Park and her co-author Geoff MacDonald looked at the German Family Panel study, a multi-year ongoing survey of German adults across several age groups. The survey includes interviews with both primary survey participants and their current and former flames. If a primary participant breaks up and finds another partner, the new S.O. gets interviewed and that data is added to the participant’s file. 

The 332 primary participants (along with their respective exes and current partners) were asked to describe their levels of what’s known by psychologists as “the big five” personality traits: agreeableness, conscientiousness, extraversion, neuroticism, and openness to experience. (On a scale of 1 to 5, participants were asked how much they agreed with a series of statements such as, “I am usually modest and reserved,” “I am interested in many different kinds of things” and “I make plans and carry them out.”)

Analyzing the collected data, Park and MacDonald found that, overall, the primary participants’ current partners described themselves very similarly to their past partners. (And their responses reflected something more than the participant’s tendency to date someone similar to themselves, Park said.)

“It’s interesting because we often see people who, following a breakup, think that they have a better idea about who they want or need as a partner,” Park said. “Sometimes they’re looking for a person that’s not necessarily the same type of person as their ex.” 

The results from this study, though, suggest there’s consistency in our partners’ personalities.

The findings are potentially a positive if you can put the lessons and communication strategies you learned in your past relationships to use with your new S.O.

The partner association was weaker, though still present, for people who scored high on extroversion and openness to new experience. (Apparently, variety is the spice of life for these folks, even when it comes to partners.)

If you’ve had a string of toxic exes, you might be rolling your eyes right now. But having a “type” isn’t inherently good or bad, Park said. Yes, similarities in partners might make you feel hopeless or frustrated when you encounter the same problems and challenges with a new partner. (“I knew this was going to happen,” you might think. “Same issues, different person.”)

But it’s potentially a positive if you can put the lessons and communication strategies you learned in your past relationships to use with your new S.O. (Think of it this way: Same issues, different person, smarter response.)

“Using that knowledge can improve your relationship quality,” Park said. “Plus, the sense of familiarity can also facilitate the couple’s bonding.”

If your “type” really has been problematic in the past ― or you have a long history of breakups ― don’t freak out about these findings. Instead, tinker and adjust your “type” and look for someone who fits your criteria while also possessing healthier traits and habits. That’s what Oliver, the aforementioned design pro who’s attracted to passionate women, has learned to do.

“I recognized that I am interested in women who are deeply passionate, but it took these failed experiences to realize that someone can have deep emotions and express complex feelings without being toxic and draining to me,” she said. “So now I’m trying to simultaneously embrace and buck my ‘type,’ just by reframing it a little.”

Sounds like a smart strategy. 

Jharkhand Lynching: 11 People Arrested In Connection With Tabrez Ansari's Killing

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SERAIKELA-KHARSAWAN, Jharkhand — Eleven people were arrested on Monday in connection with the death of a 24-year-old man, who was thrashed by a mob here for alleged theft and is seen in a purported video being forced to chant “Jai Shri Ram” and “Jai Hanuman”, police said.

A special investigation team (SIT) has been set up to look into the death of Tabrez Ansari, who was declared “brought dead” by doctors at the Tata Main Hospital in Jamshedpur, Jharkhand, on Saturday, the police said.

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Two police personnel were suspended in connection with the incident. They were officers-in-charge of Kharaswan and Sini police stations, they said.

Seraikela-Kharsawan Superintendent of Police Karthik S said on 17 June, Ansari and two others had entered a house in Seraikela village in the night, allegedly with an intention to commit theft.

However, the occupants of the house woke up and raised an alarm, following which villagers caught hold of Ansari and “manhandled” him, while his accomplices managed to flee, the SP told reporters.

Ansari was found to be in possession of valuables, which he and his associates had allegedly stolen from other villages, the officer said.

The police reached the spot in the morning and took Ansari to jail on the basis of a complaint from villagers, after administering first aid to him.

However, when his condition deteriorated in jail on the same day, he was taken to the a hospital, where he was diagnosed with multiple injuries, the SP said. He was subsequently referred to the Tata Main Hospital in Jamshedpur.

Earlier, the police had said Ansari was tied to a pole and beaten up with sticks through the night.

The video in question, circulated widely on social media, was shared with the police by Ansari’s family members and it was being investigated, the SP said.

“We are looking into all angles. His family members mentioned some unidentified miscreants in their complaint. Based on that, we have already arrested eleven people, including a man named Papu Mandal,” he added.

He said the situation was normal, yet a police posse had been deployed in the village. The SP said the post-mortem report had not been received yet.

Ansari’s wife, Shaista Praveen, has accused the police of taking him to jail first, instead of a hospital.

The opposition Congress said it had formed a seven-member team to probe the incident. “We demand Rs 25 lakh compensation for the family of the victim and a job for his wife,” a state Congress leader said.

The incident has triggered angry reactions from various political parties across the country.

Peoples Democratic Party chief Mehbooba Mufti said Ansari was lynched to death in BJP-ruled Jharkhand. 

All India Majlis-e-Ittehadul Muslimeen (AIMIM) chief Asaduddin Owaisi said such incidents now followed a familiar pattern.

The incident also found mention in the Rajya Sabha, when senior Congress leader Ghulam Nabi Azad said Jharkhand had become a “lynching factory”.

“Dalits and Muslims are being killed there every week. Prime Minister (Narendra) Modi, we are with you in the fight of ‘sabka saath sabka vikas’, but it should be there for people to see it. We cannot see it anywhere,” he said. 

Dr. Phil Accidentally Revealed Sophie Turner And Joe Jonas' Wedding Date

Dr. Phil just couldn’t help himself.

Over the weekend, Sophie Turner posted a sweet photo of her and husband Joe Jonas being all kinds of cute in front of the Eiffel Tower.

And when Phil McGraw, the host of the talk show “Dr. Phil,” saw the photo, he just had to leave a humble brag as a comment.

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“1 week to go!” he wrote, adding: “See you at the wedding!”

Unfortunately, his need to inform the world that he’s attending the famous couple’s wedding also spilled the tea on the ceremony’s secret date.

Although Turner and Jonas tied the knot in May during an impromptu wedding in Las Vegas, it was done on a whim, and many of the couple’s loved ones were not present.

Jonas actually admitted during an interview with SiriusXM earlier this month that his parents learned about the Vegas wedding online.

“In my mind, [the Vegas wedding] was the legal portion of the marriage,” he said when asked why his parents weren’t there or why they weren’t given a heads up about the surprise wedding. “So, I was thinking, this is not the most important day, there’s an important day — that I’ll keep private — ahead of us.”

This “important day” is most likely the couple’s more formal ceremony that they’ve been planning for quite a while — and have been pretty tight-lipped about.

And for those who are wondering why Dr. Phil will be in attendance at the Jophie nuptials, the TV personality, who is not an actual doctor, did seem to bond with Turner when she visited McGraw’s podcast “Phil in the Blanks” in April to discuss her experiences with mental health.

“I’m really excited to be here,” the “Game of Thrones” actress gushed on the podcast. “Because I’m a huge fan of your show.”

We’re just wondering how big of a fan she is now.

Halsey Rocks Unshaved Armpits On Her Rolling Stone Cover, And People Love It

Halsey wasn’t afraid to bare her body hair for the new cover of Rolling Stone’s “Hot Issue,” revealing unshaved armpits in a photo she shared last week.

The “Bad at Love” singer earned praise from celebrities like Demi Lovato and Zara Larsson, who applauded her ― and the magazine ― for not digitally editing her body hair out of the picture. 

“There so much yes about this picture idk where to start,” Lovato commented on Instagram. Larrson tweeted about the cover, calling it “stunning.”

“I loooove the fact that they didn’t edit the armpits like most magazines would do. Women are not little babies who don’t have body hair,” she wrote on Twitter. 

Many fans also commended the singer for the realness she served on the cover: 

Last year, the singer’s hair again made headlines after she slammed critics for coming after her natural hair.

Halsey, who is biracial, faced criticism after she posted a photo of her hair with the caption “new growth, new growth; all these fades I outgrew.” While some people didn’t like her look, the “Bad at Love” star wasn’t having it. 

“I can’t believe I spent a whole damn year growing out my curls under those wigs for y’all to say my natural hair looks like a wig,” she wrote. “Some fucked up shit lmao.” 

New US Sanctions Mean ‘Permanent Closure’ Of Diplomacy, Iran Says

TEHRAN, Iran — Iran’s Foreign Ministry spokesman says the new US sanctions targeting the Islamic Republic’s supreme leader and other top officials mean the “permanent closure” of diplomacy between Tehran and Washington.

That’s according to a report carried by the state-run IRNA news agency on Tuesday, quoting the spokesman, Abbas Mousavi.

Mousavi says the “fruitless sanction on Iran’s leadership and the chief of Iranian diplomacy mean the permanent closure of the road of diplomacy with the frustrated US administration.”

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Trump enacted new sanctions Monday targeting Iran’s Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei. US officials also say they plan sanctions against Iranian Foreign Minister Mohammad Javad Zarif.

This comes amid heightened tensions between Iran and the US over its unraveling nuclear deal and as Iran last week shot down a US military surveillance drone.

Badaun Police Is Frisking People At Gun Point As 'Precautionary' Measure

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BADAUN — Oblivious of the hassle that it may be causing to citizens, the Badaun Police in Uttar Pradesh has been subjecting people to random security checks at gun points with both their arms held up in air in hands-up position.

In defence of this drastic method of security checks being resorted to by the police, district’s Senior Superintendent of Police Ashok Kumar Tripathi Monday asserted that it was a precautionary method to avert any attack on policemen on duty. 

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A video and some photographs of the policemen frisking people and checking their vehicles at police barricades on roads with one policeman pointing gun at them, forcing them to stand motionless in hands-up position has gone viral on various social media platforms in the area.

In one photograph, Bagrain police post in-charge Rahul Kumar Sisodia under the Wazirganj police station could be seen pointing a pistol at passers-by with other policemen frisking them.

Cops holding a gun at passers-by could also be seen in the video, which went viral.

When contacted, SSP Tripathi said, “Criminals generally move with firearms and there have been several instances of attack on policemen during security checks.”

“Hence, this has been done as a precautionary measure. When two cops are conducting checks, one cop is in an alert mode, so that no untoward incident takes place, the SSP added.

“This is being done from the security point of view,” he said.


Beyond Airpods — What You Need To Know About Buying ‘True Wireless’ Earphones

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Ever since Apple launched the Airpods, several other companies have been getting onto the “true wireless” boat. While wireless headphones — where there’s a wire connecting the two earpieces — have been around for ages, true wireless earphones are still a new development, although the rapid adoption of Airpods may make that hard to believe.

But with multiple brands out there now, what do you need to keep in mind when choosing what to buy? Although buying these devices is pretty similar to buying other earphones, there are a couple of additional factors that you need to keep in mind.

These six points are things you should consider when you’re looking to buy true wireless earphones such as Airpods, or those from other brands like Bose, Jabra, Samsung, and others.

1. Design

Since this is a new category, there are a number of different designs available right now, which doesn’t just impact the look, but also how these earbuds fit in your ears. The iconic Airpods look a lot like the normal Apple headphones — EarPods — just sans wires.

Wireless earbuds from the likes of Bose, Sennheiser, Sony and Samsung look like bullet points or dots. Then there are the more affordable truly wireless earphones from Skullcandy, Toreto, Stuffcool and Boat that come in funky shapes and sizes.

Some, like AirPods, take a one-size fits all approach, while others come with replaceable tips for a better fit; or with wings to sit more securely in your ear, or a hinge to hook them around the ear.

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When you’re looking at the design, aside from aesthetics, you need to consider the comfort, fit (a close fit blocks out outside noises) and also if you’ll be wearing them to the gym, are they waterproof?

2. Stability

While stability is one of the considerations we need to keep in mind when looking at design, with a fully wireless earbud, it’s important enough to be considered as a fresh point. That’s because if one of these falls out of your ear, it won’t just dangle at the end of a cord, it could potentially be lost forever.

All these earbuds tend to fall out, no matter how stable they are. Some will fall out more easily than others, but each of them will fall out at some point in time. So make sure you try out the earbuds before you buy them, and ensure that they are at least steady enough for day to day use in your ears, because one-size does not fit all, and if you lose even one of the buds, the experience goes for a toss.

3. Connectivity

You need to check how easy it is to pair the earphones with your phones, and also, how easy it is to switch them on and off. Here too, not all earbuds are born equal—with some, you need to do a long press, or a double tap, on tiny buttons, but others like AirPods will reconnect as soon as you bring them close to your phone.

Some buds also need to stay connected not just to your phone but also each other, in which case you need to turn them on one at a time. The bigger brands have done a generally good job in this regard, but if you’re buying a pair of true wireless earphones, make sure that they have a simple and reliable process to connect to your phone.

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4. Carry case

When it comes to most earphones and headphones, the case in which they are carried isn’t very important. But when it comes to truly wireless earbuds, their carrying case if often crucial to the buds’ existence. This is because most carry cases of true wireless earphones are not only the home to the buds when not in use, but also double up as their charger.

That’s not true for some low-end ones, but in that situation too, it might be a good idea to invest in one simply so you don’t risk misplacing them. If the earphones come with a case, you should also look at the size and weight of the case, to see if the total experience is actually as portable and convenient as the earphones promised.

5. Battery and charging

Truly wireless earphones may look and feel all hep and trendy but that small form factor means that the batteries inside them are smaller, eating away crucial audio hours. Most of these buds can last up to 3-5 hours on a single charge. Anything below it is pretty much unacceptable and anything above that is a bonus.

Then comes the charging process. Most wireless earphones may be without any wires when it comes to the buds and but they still get charged through wired chargers, which as we pointed out earlier, are often through their cases (Apple’s second generation AirPods are one of the few that actually come with a wireless charging case, if you are willing to pay extra).

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The battery life provided by these cases can vary from model to model. It is generally given in terms of the number of times the case can recharge the earbuds - which can be from a couple of recharges to half a dozen of them. They also tend to charge at different speeds - Apple’s case for instance, claims to deliver three hours of listening time when you place the AirPods in them for just fifteen minutes.

6. Ease of use

They might have a few connectivity blues and their battery life might not always be there greatest, but what can be really really (really) annoying in most true wireless earphones are the controls, be it for charging column, skipping tracks or making and rejecting calls. Most earbuds come with teeny-tiny buttons that are almost impossible to press and operate and the placement of these buttons generally is another problem.

The buds themselves are so small that finding buttons on them becomes a headache in itself. Some buds have tried to address this by adding touch and tap control options instead of buttons, like the AirPods and the Bragi Dash Pro, but even those can be slightly complicated simply because there are times when you do not know whether your touch has registered or not - a double tap might be mistaken for a single one, a swipe for a tap and so on. The control systems are not quite perfect yet, so try out a few different ones to see what works for you.

This Is The New MS Dhoni Of World Cricket, According To Australia's Coach

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LONDON — Australia coach Justin Langer on Monday heaped praise on Jos Buttler, terming the swashbuckling England batsman as the new Mahendra Singh Dhoni of world cricket.

Wicketkeeper batsman Buttler has excelled for England with his aggressive style of batting and Langer believes he can succeed former India skipper Dhoni, who is considered as one of the best finishers in international cricket.

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“Jos is an unbelievable player. I love watching him bat. He is the new Dhoni of world cricket,” said Langer.

“I hope he gets a duck in this (Tuesday’s) game obviously, but I saw him at Somerset and he is an unbelievable athlete and an incredible finisher,” the Australian coach added on the eve of their World Cup match against England.

Buttler has scored 3728 runs at an average of 41.42 and a strike-rate of 120.25 in 137 matches.

33 Award-Winning Wedding Photos That Are Totally Eye-Catching

With wedding pictures from friends, family, colleagues and celebrities flooding our social media feeds at all times, it takes a truly remarkable wedding photo to capture our attention these days. The award-winning images below do just that. 

Fearless Photographers, a website dedicated to showcasing the very best wedding photography, released its most recent collection of images on Wednesday. Photographers from around the world submitted roughly 10,000 images for consideration, but only 137 made the final cut. 

Below, we’ve highlighted some of our favorite shots from the collection. To see the rest, head over to the Fearless Photographers website

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BEE TWO SWEET PHOTOGRAPHY
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Jacki Bruniquel
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VINCIWANG
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DANIEL RIBEIRO
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MIGUEL PONTE PHOTOGRAPHY
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LIMELIGHT ANNA GAZDA
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Passion Studio
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REELS AND FRAMES BY ANAND RATHI
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LIVIO LACURRE PHOTOGRAPHY
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KISSES & CONFETTI
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KIM HART FOTOGRAFIE
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LUKAS BEZILA PHOTOGRAPHY
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FENGLONG PHOTOGRAPHY
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FRANCK BOUTONNET
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M AND G PHOTOGRAPHIC
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MARIUS BARBULESCU PHOTOGRAPHY
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TRUE LOVE STORIES
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COLIN COLEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
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ANDREU DOZ PHOTOGRAPHY
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HANNAH PHOTOGRAPHY
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PHOTO-4U
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IÑAKI LUNGARÁN
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PEDRO ÁLVAREZ
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SKIPPING STONE PHOTOGRAPHY
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STYLE & STORY CREATIVE
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LYNDSEY GODDARD PHOTOGRAPHY
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BEE TWO SWEET
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PEDRO ÁLVAREZ
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SAGA VISION
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ONE LITTLE DAISY PHOTOGRAPHY
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PHILIPPE PHOTOGRAPHY
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CLAUDIU NEGREA
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LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY BY SUSANA BARBERÁ

Country Went Through 'Super Emergency' For Last 3 Years, Says Mamata

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NEW DELHI — Hitting out at the BJP, West Bengal Chief Minister Mamata Banerjee said while Tuesday was the anniversary of the Emergency imposed in 1975, the country is going through “super emergency” for the past five years.

Emergency was imposed by then Prime Minister Indira Gandhi on this day in 1975 which was in effect till 21 March, 1977.

“Today is the anniversary of the Emergency declared in 1975. For the last five years, the country went through a ‘Super Emergency’. We must learn our lessons from history and fight to safeguard the democratic institutions in the country,” Banerjee tweeted.

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Supreme Court Rejects Congress Plea Against Separate Bypolls For 2 Rajya Sabha Seats

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NEW DELHI — The Supreme Court on Tuesday refused to entertain a plea by the Gujarat Congress challenging the Election Commission’s decision to hold separate bypolls to two Rajya Sabha seats in the state.

A vacation bench comprising Justice Sanjiv Khanna and Justice BR Gavai, however, granted liberty to the Gujarat Congress to file ‘election petition’ after conclusion of polls to the two Rajya Sabha seats vacated by Union Ministers Amit Shah and Smriti Irani.

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An election petition is a procedure to call into question the election results of parliamentary, Assembly or local elections.

The two Rajya Sabha seats fell vacant after Shah and Irani got elected to the Lok Sabha from Gujarat’s Gandhinagar and Uttar Pradesh’s Amethi, respectively.

The plea was filed by Congress MLA and Leader of Opposition in Gujarat Assembly Pareshbhai Dhanani.

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